Posts in October, 2009

What do you mean: “reflective”?

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Dear Friends,
I feel very squeamish about the word reflect.  To me it seems that the point is not to be a mirror, but to be (in the other sense) reflective: to take in what is given, to be touched by it and to reflect inwardly - like Mary, who “kept all these things in her […]

Relational Focusing

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Dear Friends
When I am teaching Focusing to anybody now, I have four things in my mind:
1   Respect
By respect, I mean that I want to follow, not to lead.
2   Tenderness
By tenderness, I mean that I want to remember that everybody is vulnerable, even when we are hiding it.
3   Phrasing
By phrasing, I mean that I want to […]

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